Facebook Flirting

By Magic

Even before I start typing I need to apologize because this blog is going to be a long one. 

When I started on the path to succeed in the dating world I had no idea what to expect. Truthfully, I had serious doubts if I would ever succeed with women.  
Years have passed and now I rarely think of that time. But once in a while I’m reminded of where I started from and where I am today. 
I am writing this email with two intentions.  

I am hoping: 

1.You will get motivated from my journey and start taking action. The only way you will succeed

2.You will realize the importance of transforming self and learn the right dating etiquettes as oppose to learning shallow tricks that take you so far.  
I want you to keep reading and you will see how your personality radiates through everything you do. 
When I came to the USA about 10 years back I wanted to date all the beautiful women I saw around me. I had no success until I started learning from a woman who taught me the basics that I later built my game on.  
I remember when she said that who I am will be visible in everything that is part of me. I will never be able to hide who I am. I didn’t question what she meant by it, but I wasn’t very clear about this either.  For the longest time it made no sense to me, but now I know what she meant. 
So few years back I was attracted to a European woman…  
Surprise! I am STILL attracted to European women…  
I wanted to date her but she rejected me. Now most gurus out there would advise you to push it till she becomes yours or simply walk away. 

I have a different theory… 
I believe you should use your skills to seduce her but never quit until it becomes unhealthy. 
I did not walk away from this woman and stayed friends with her. I did not stop living my life hoping she will come back to me someday but I also did not lose touch. 
I have not seen her in past three years as she is back in her country but we continued to exchange emails and Facebook messages from time to time.  
During this time I was working on my skills and it seemed to hit her that I was changing through my Facebook messages. She could see the change in me and felt attraction for me because of my messages on Facebook. 

What magic lines did I send that got her wanting me? 
NOTHING! 
I had plain simple conversations, that I have with everyone. It was not the words, but how I said them and where I was coming from when saying those words. 
These words generated so much attraction that she is now travelling from Europe to see me in this August. 
So here is some conversation I copied and pasted from our correspondence together and I will explain after what happened here: 
I commented on her photo that she was sexy or something on the lines.  
She sent me a message: 

Her: (Excuse her broken English—-She is French)

Thank you manish about what you think for my photo…i know, i m sexy girl ( it’s a joke!, sure).well, i have a question about you, where do you live now? and what is you’re job? because in you’re pictures there are many people and maybe you work for music? take care manish! love, kisses 

Me: 
I am living at my uncle’s winery right now. I was in LA before and will be moving to NYC soon.  I write songs but for business I am a dating coach. This is my business website: www.attractionmethods.com Lots of people because I am sexy too and people like to be with me as well… ;) Take care, Manish  

Her:

I m sure you have a lot of friends because you are a very nice person in a past and i know it s the same now! You write songs…so i love this job, you a dating coach and me a sporting coach, i created my entreprise. Kisses 

Her:

oh!!! i just see you re bussiness website!!!!! it’s a realy good idea to coach men who don t arrived to have a girlfriend!! a lot of people live alone actually, you help, give a confidence at this men and i hope you arrived in you re mission to help all!!!! in a past, i never imagine this job for you!! just because i think in a futur you are a bisness man in maybe informatique or another things!!! it’s nice to see you re site!!!! my little site is in french, i give you it: [her website] yes, it’s funny, india name! kisses 

Me: Very Nice! Good to know that you are growing in your profession. You are so talented when it comes to [her business]. I did not get a touch on you last time but I am sure next time we fence I get a touch on you ;)
So why did u chose [her website]? Are you dating a girl named Usha :)
You are right I was very bad with women so one could have never imagined that some day I will be teaching about dating. I was very lonely myself and had to learn how to date women. once I became good, I started teaching men and women both.
Take care [her name] and stay in touch! Love and kisses to you as well!  
Her: 
I never said you’re bad with women in a past, in my head, i was think you have a different culture of me and it’s so difficult for a woman to( for example) have a relation with a man thinking directly ( maybe) we go married or if the relation finish, he depress…i like this sort of man but it’s dangerous for him! but you know, for have a nice relation for woman, it’s not all the time in a books but it’s in the heart too!!! but you know that!!!! well mister sexy!, i don’t have a date with usha ;) ( i prefer man sure. sorry for my english… love and kisses!!!!  
Me: (I replied to her in French using Google Translate but for now I am writing it in English) 
I would never talk to you if you did not talk the way you do. Your accent and your English is beautiful. It turns me on for I find it very sexy. Do not change anything about you because you are perfect the way you are.

Her:
Hum! You speak a good french with translate google! You know the good letter for speak with a girl, you are a lover in message and sure i love this! But i’m an more best fencer than you! ;). Take care of you and when a day you want come in aix en provence in france, come in my home! Kisses  
Her:
Manish, i work a lot in france and i need vacation!!! well, it’s for that, i come pratically sure the august 7 at august 20 in usa, if you here i would like to see you! well, take care of you!!Hope see you this summer mister sexy ;)kisses kisses Notice what happened in this interaction.  We were friends, she saw me interact with other people on face book. She noticed my photos having good time then we talked. While talking to me she noticed the change in me. I flirted and made her feel sexy. She rewarded me by saying she is coming to me. She even started explaining that she rejected me not because she did not find me attractive but because she was afraid I will get hurt. This is why I insist on learning the right dating etiquettes and focus on building a lifestyle. This is no unique event in my life. I have stories after stories how my lifestyle draws women to me. I talked about this one because I had messages from her that I thought would be good to share with you. I have been saying this for some time and here it is again: Think different, Act different and there will be no stopping you. This interaction should also be a testament of how bad I sucked with women at one time and how I have managed to turn things around for me. Imagine how good I feel that a woman is flying from France because she is attracted to me. You can experience the same success.  

The question is: are you willing to take the action needed?  Most men don’t take action because they are unsure if they can succeed.  They would rather suffer than take a chance because of their possible failure.  Truth is that failure is the first step to success.  Learning from your mistakes is the fastest way to mastery. So stop sitting on the sidelines and start taking action. I have all the resources to get you going. Read my Social Mastery book and do the exercises at the end of every chapter. See how quickly it sets you on the path to dating mastery.
(Credits: Image by Ed Yourdon)

The Biggest Myths Of Pick Up Part-2

By Magic

Last week I mentioned few myths of pickup community. I could continue with the list but I guess it is time to move on.   

In this post, I’m going to reveal a few things you should start using right away to skyrocket your success with women.  

I know no one is interested to practice the general stuff or work on areas of life that are not directly related to pick up skills. As a coach my job is to give you the right information and not the information you think will work.  

You have to take my word that your skills and techniques are incomplete without the following information below.    

It’s like having the greatest car and the most powerful engine on the market but with no air in the tires…   

Some of the stuff below might seem daunting, but trust me that it does not take long to master and see results from. After live coaching and you will have a great control of these elements which act as a catalyst to generate massive amounts of attraction. 

T.E.A.S.E  

Tonality, Eye Contact, Animation, Sexual Escalation and Energy are the most powerful components to demonstrate power, confidence, dominance and stability.   

If you can master the right level of T.E.A.S.E you will have no problem opening and controlling groups of women. In fact T.E.A.S.E is so powerful that women will start opening you when you display them at the right level.  

Positivity  

Negativity is public enemy number one! If you are negative in general it will come across in your attitude. A positive person feels happy within and spreads positivity. Positivity is contagious and it makes people feel good: man, woman or child. As a result when women see a secure man in you they relax around you.

Be Social

Most students of pickup are not social. They go out only to pick up women. They would never waste time socializing but focus on the mission to pick up chicks. Do the opposite. Be social.   

Take interest in people and their lives. Explore what they find beautiful about their life, work and hobbies. Practice this for a little while and soon you will become natural conversationalist and a charmer. You won’t need any routines. People will enjoy your company and onlookers will see you as the life of the party. Your value will go up and you will get laid like a rock star, along with some other important skills that will contribute.  

Stop Acting Desperate  

I meet these men who are super desperate about women. All they can do is talk about women. They spend hours on the internet stalking women’s profiles on social media sites. Every few minutes they will show you some woman’s photo and talk about how hot she is. The only conversation they can have is about some hot chick that they wanted to bang or they wish they could bang so and so.   

Now all of us talk about women and our desires but if that piece dominates the majority of your conversation you are too desperate and it will reflect in your conversation with women. Relax and take it easy.Start playing sports, build some hobby, develop some interest and start talking other things. Get a life.   

Focus On Lifestyle  

Most students of pick up treat bars, clubs and shopping malls as a mecca for seduction. Their sole focus is to visit these places to approach women. Think different.   

Instead of focusing all your energy to visit these places to meet women start building a lifestyle that is rich with women. Build a social circle and participate in activities that draw women to you and you will never have to leave your house to meet women.   

Seducing women is way easier in a social circle and any environment outside of bars and clubs. Why focus on the tough road?   

You may not find the kind of women you want in your neighborhood bars or at least lot of them at one time. Your social circle or activity can ensure you meet multiple women that meet your standards at any given time. Use bars and clubs as practice grounds then build a lifestyle to draw women to you. Seduce them with your newly discovered skill set.  

Mindset  

Focus on building the right mindset and approach to dating. Most schools out there position dating women as a hard and rough adventure. Dating and seduction is easier than driving a stick shift if you have the right mindset. Dating is normal and natural.   

Why would anyone be single when they can be with a partner? Why would someone not talk to a woman who they find attractive? Why would anyone not try to sleep with a woman who they find sexy?   

Desiring women and making an effort to have them is normal and natural adult male behavior. No need to shy away from it. Women want you to approach and seduce them but they also want you to do it right.  

Watch a movie called “Hang ‘Em High” with Clint Eastwood.   

In the movie there is a scene when Clint tries to kiss the woman. When she turns her face around instead of feeling rejected he probes as to why the woman did not go for the kiss. He assumes that it was only natural for them to kiss and something must be wrong that she refused to kiss. So he leans back and simply asks “what’s the matter” and we finally find out that she was raped and is now weary of men. Yes attraction and seduction is natural. What is more natural is acting on your attraction for a particular woman and trying to make her yours.  

Yes, build the right mindset and seduction will become easy.  

Talk soon,

Magic

Lead Coach

+1 (352) 432-8464

www.attractionmethods.com

(Credits: Images by martinkorben)