Myths Of Pick Up Part 1

By Magic

I recently spoke at a Dating Conference in New York. After the conference lot of student came to me for discussion and I realized that there are lot people who are victims of “Pick Up Myths”.  I decided to address this once and for all.

In this two part news letter I will first discuss ten myths that you need to ignore. Then I will hand you a list certain components that you need to add to your game to succeed with beautiful women.

Here are the myths:

1. Good looking women get approached all the time

Every time I teach a workshop or give a seminar, I ask students to raise hands if they approach perfect 10s’ on regular basis. Hardly one or two students raise hands. Talk to any good looking women and they will tell you that they hardly get approached.

2. Having a wingman is good

The worst thing you can do to limit your success with women is to have a wingman. If the wingman does not know what he is doing he will destroy your interaction. If he is better than you he will get all the attention and you will stand empty hand.

3. Bring a woman’s value down using Neg

Neg’s only work on insecure women. Why would you date a woman like that? I only date women who are worthy. I let them know that I admire them for who they are. This does not make me needy it makes me a confident person who goes after what he likes.

4. Nice guys don’t get laid

It’s the shy guy who has trouble getting laid. I am a nice guy because I do not lie or cheat but I get laid on regular basis. You do not have to play games or tricks to pull a woman into your sack. You just have to act like a man to seduce her.

5. Women don’t want to have sex

Sure, every woman craves to go back home to play with her jack rabbit. Women are just as sexual as men. They only sleep with men that are sexual, non judgmental and safe. If you know how to demonstrate the combination of three you will be fine.

6. Amog competition

Amog refers to “Alpha Male Other Guys”. I have personally seen women walk away when two guys fought over her. Trying to show off makes you come across as insecure. Learn the right way on how to win the woman without getting into a competition. Another guy talking to my target is a bonus for me. She will now realize what a catch I am. THINK DIFFERENT!

7. Build your value

Either you have value or you don’t. If you are valuable no need to demonstrate it will reflect. If you are not nothing will make it happen. I always lower my value. I tell women upfront that I am broke, losing hair, and can’t speak proper English. I get laid all the time. I love when another guy brags his success to a woman in front of me. He comes across as trying too hard and makes me appear relaxed and nothing to prove.

8. Hide your intentions

There is a popular belief among top dating coaches that if women find out early on that you want them they will run away. I let every woman know that the only thing I want from them is a man - woman relationship. This is exactly what I teach my students. No wonder 3 out of 4 students I trained last year got laid within a week of my training. And no wonder other companies are still struggling to get their coaches laid. Don’t hide your intentions if nothing else women will be flattered that you find them desirable.

9. It takes hours to get laid

Seduction happens very fast. You can spend hours before you go for the kiss but you do not have to. If you want to have a one night stand there is no way on this planet that you wait 3 hours before initiating the first kiss. You gotta go for the kiss within the first 30 minutes and pull her for sex in an hour.

10. Isolate before you kiss

Never do that unless the woman asks for it. Women usually have silent competition. When you go for the kiss in front of her friends she feels rewarded. Make sure to win all of her friends before you go for the kiss so no one objects. If her friends like you she or if her friends approve of you she will have no problem getting sexual with you. Learn to operate in social groups.

11. Set Up A Date in Advance (Time Bridge)

The concept of time bridge is to set up a date 7 days in advance because women are busy and they make plans. I got some news for you: If a woman does not enjoy your company she won’t show up for the date just because she said she would. And if she really cares to be with you she will cancel her plans to join you. Learn how to generate unstoppable and uncontrollable attraction so she wants to be with you and you won’t need any time bridging.

I’ll continue in the next part.

Until then…

-Magic

(Credits : Image by Alyssa L. Miller )