DATING AND SEX

By Lisa Skye Carle

There are many “pros” and “cons” about having sex with people you are dating. I’d like to throw out a few “pros” and “cons” to stir up a conversation.

 

“Pros” :  

1. sex is often really HOT with someone new
2. it’s good to know if you are sexually compatible before committing to a relationship
3. just thinking about the possibility of sex with a new partner is very exciting
4. did I mention that it is fun and really hot!!

“Cons” :   

 
1. you really “should” have the safer sex conversation - can be awkward!
2. sex can bring up difficult feelings and insecurities - “am I hot enough…”
3. you can get attached to someone who isn’t really right for you
4. the first time (or more!) with a new partner can be awkward and anxiety producing - both men and women can have “performance anxiety”
5. If you are sexually active with multiple partners, how do you decide to disclose or not?

Credits: Image by kyz