It Is Ok To Be A Man

By Magic

Last week I went to Las Vegas with a couple friends to celebrate my birthday. We went to the bar at MGM hotel to meet women. There was this one particular woman who was having her bachelorette party. One of my friends started talking to her and later called me to join the group.

I started teasing the bride to be and in no time she was totally attracted to me. She was chasing me and opening me when I would distance myself. She was holding me, hugging me, I was licking her ears and what not. I could have totally closed her that night if I wanted to. The truth is she was the kind of woman I would want in my life and I still didn’t close her.

I didn’t close her because I have done that in the past and have sour memories. The story I am about to share with you is not the brightest moment of my dating life. In fact it is one I am little embarrassed and ashamed of. Nonetheless I am still sharing it with you so we all can benefit from my experience.

Few years back I was in a similar situation in New York. I met this woman who was a bride to be and I convinced her to call off her wedding which she did. After dating for a while we realized we were not suited for each other. I felt guilty and horrible because I made her call off her wedding and now we won’t be together either. 

I know it was not my fault because it was a mutual decision. I also know that she probably was not ready for her marriage else she would not have called it off on my account.  I still feel partly responsible. 

This is the reason I decided to hold myself back when I met this woman in Vegas. I liked her but didn’t take action because I was not a 100% sure.

Human beings are emotional creatures. In cases of love and romance we mostly act on our emotions and not principals. If we like someone we don’t care about anything or anyone else. We don’t worry about consequences either. We simply act on our emotions.

No matter what the situation, you should always take a chance. Most men are worried about a woman having a boyfriend and here I am sleeping with a woman who is about to get married and licking ears of another in similar situation. I have made out with women in front of their boyfriends. Read reviews on my website. I have had a woman sleep with me leaving her boyfriend, by himself, in a hotel room. This is after he had traveled thousands of miles from Europe to be with her. 

I am not telling these stories to brag about my conquests but to motivate you to act on your desires and stop making excuses. You will be surprised with the outcomes. If you truly feel for a woman, make a move instead of cowarding away. You are a man and there is no reason for you to be ashamed of your desire for a woman.

Look man I love women and love spending time with them. Women are not conquests for me. I have never counted how many women I have slept with. Women give me energy. Their love makes me feel rich. Every woman has something different and new to offer. When a woman agrees to sleep with me I feel thankful that she is willing to partner with me. I feel good that she trusts me and is willing to create some personal and intimate moments with me. Some end up in one night stands and some end up in relationships depending on how we both feel.

I sleep with women because I feel possessed. I crave for their company, touch and love. Women notice this about me instantly. This makes them feel loved, complemented and desired. My passion makes women feel wanted. Women recognize that out of my passion I have no choice other than acting on my desire to make them mine. This is what makes them want to be with me.

The question is how does one become this person? How does one convey this personality to women he meets on regular basis without coming across as needy?

This is where your mindset and belief system comes in. I see so many guys relying on pick up lines and routines to seduce women. 

Men in today’s society are afraid of being men. They are afraid to approach women and seduce, them let alone getting sexual with them. Most men fear something bad is going to happen if a woman finds out about their intentions. So they keep talking about every God damn thing on this planet, without revealing their intentions. As a consequence their interactions with women rarely transform into sexual relationship.

When a woman asks me if I am trying to get into her pants I answer: “yes but not just yet”. When they say let’s just be friends, I reply: “sure but know that I am gonna try to get into your pants. You are a woman your job is to resist. I am a man and my job is to persist. I have enough social skills to not make it awkward but know that this will happen”.

I wonder what else does a woman desire. I have asked women on numerous occasions if they would rather go home with no guy approaching them or would they rather go home with 20 weird, awkward, shy guys approaching and making them feel desired. What do you think? 

Which human being on this planet leaves the house hoping no one tells them that they are sexy and desirable? Why would you not approach a woman and make her feel sexy and desired. You are actually doing a favor to women by telling them they are desired. Talk to any woman in her late thirties and she will tell you how she misses the attention that she used to get 10 years back.

So the first advice I have for you is to become a man. Stop being afraid and ashamed of your desire to sleep with women. You are not doing anything wrong. There is nothing wrong about a man desiring a woman. You are a straight man who gets attracted to women, I don’t know what law of universe you break with this.  

Next learn the right attitude and form the correct belief system that will draw women to you. This is the most important factor behind my success with women. 

My desire for women makes me not worry about rejection. A woman once asked me if I ever got slapped by another woman because I am so sexually aggressive. I answered: “not yet but I would never approach a woman who is not worth a slap”. Guess what? I ended up sleeping with this woman the same night.

There is lot of poor information circulating on the web and preached by so called “pick up gurus”. Be very careful whose information you put to use. I have had clients who had suffered serious damages as a consequence of taking the advice given by these phony gurus. 

Read Social Mastery EBook or sign up for one of our live training session. See how you will get instant and life transforming results from our coaching. 3 out of 4 students that I trained last year ended up sleeping with women within 1 week of training if not during the training itself. I must be doing something right.

No woman can resist a strong, confident man. If you believe that what you are doing is natural and real, women will see it as well. If you have the right attitude you will sleep with almost every woman you meet because a man like you is almost impossible to find. There is not a single day I don’t hear women say “no one has ever said this to me before” or “no other man has made me feel like this before”. I even get compliments from women after almost every talk I give at dating events and seminars.

So stop worrying about what people think of you and start acting as a man. Go out and approach two women tonight. Show your interest in them as a man. Your interaction may not end up with anything sexual because you still don’t have all the tools yet to seduce a woman. But you will feel good and liberated when you reveal your intentions. You will feel like a man and you feel in control. This in itself makes it worth approaching women and getting sexual with them.

In the meanwhile have a good weekend and start flirting with every woman you meet.

Good Luck!

-Magic

(Credits: Image by tibchris)

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